"Look Out For Yourself
First", by Dr.Roy Foster (in the making)
A Critcism of "Who
Is Looking Out For You?" by Bill O'Reilley
........Looking out for yourself should not be selfishness but raising your consciousness with a yearning to find out who and what you are and make the neccesary changes to become the spiritual being that you once were. If you simply wish to know who is looking out for you, it has its benefits but one cannot be relying upon others but learn to be self-reliant and know the fact of life in order to deal with the sinister elements in those who are not looking out for you.
Chapter 1 - Folk Music
........Because
Music is addictive we must take a different look at this and Bill's
book is looking at Folk Music in this chapter. The addiction is
the serious part of this music scene.
Bill states, "....And there is little any of us can do about
it. We live in a free society." However, we can actually
do something about it because Creator always has an upper hand
and guides all of us. if we listen correctly. The first thing is
to recognize that man and woman are living at a low conscious
level of awareness and need to realize that changes can be made
to this society and to themselves as a mirror of change to their
close ones. We must never forget that we are spiritual beings
and if anyone wishes to disagree with this on this step back and
let them discover it for themselves hoping that it is not too
late for them. Now, because we are spiritual beings, the only
cure is to sincerely say that you are sorry for you past corrupt
life and keep working on this realization known as the 3 R's in
this authors first book titled "World's Greatest Conspsiracy(.com)
(- www.MentalGrowth.com). Bill has yet to discover this phenomenon
of the 3 R's but is getting close while his anger becomes visible
during his TV programs. You see, anger is what gives "it"
the power where "it" is the source of incorrectness
and one might describe this as evil influence to be even a bit
nice about it.
........We
must never forget that addictions become harder and harder to
get rid of as one passes over the point of 40 years of age. One
can look around and see that the so-called mid-life crisis is
simply the point of no return. Awakening to absolute truth must
come before the age of about 40 otherwise it becomes a much tougher
road back to that once upon a time original innocence which parents
and society took away from moat of us.
Bill desribes irresponsibility. "Irresponsible people" are basically irresponsible because they have no allegiance to
Creator who had placed them on this earth in the first place.
They would not have ever had a life, if it had not been for good
old Creator. There is such a thing as absolute responsibility
and just conditioned responsibility. The corrupted mind (AHVC
mindset) can even be responsible to evil influences as an allegiance
to the devil just as we now see in the Palestinians and Islamic
fundamentalists. When behavior patterns are obssessive they lead
to backward decision making which means coming from a thought
process by way of a corrupted mind. This had grown unconsciously
during your developing years as a child and even for the parent
because the parent most likely does not understand this phenomenon
while the parents also in an addictive state of mind. Yes, addicted
to life's influences that provide that feeling of life.
........Life
in general is addictive and when one needs something out of life
it is an addiction although relatively speaking it has its highs
nd lows. Remember a serial killer is very addicted to the feeling
of the crime.
Bill is wrong here that, "....there is nothing any American
authority can do to stop it." They can do something about,
if the American public wakes up California woke up to the corruption
of their Governor Gray Davis and removed him just recently (October
2003). This might hopefully be another message from Creator that
things can change not only in the authorities but in one's own
personal life too. However, it takes an inner yearning and can
be accomplished with the correct belief that a higher power does
exist, which means that your egomust go.
When "China kills a baby", which Bill writes, it means
that the Chinese government needs to be changed. When "Islam
fundamentalists kill a woman who gets pregnant without a husband"
it means that Islams must take a good look at their religion although
this can be very painful because they have been conditioned for
generations under emotional pressure to believe that this is correct
to kill for this particular reason. They were never shown that
Creator could be foolish enough to allow killings or even a suicide.
Creator must be a power of brilliance to have created it all and
therefore why would he be that foolish to allow it to all die
off. What you must now understand is that life is just an experiment
for Creator and you are one of the experiments. It's up to you
now. Understand that he permits painful experiences for a reason
and some people must die as a strong message for civilization
to change. He could have intervened to prevent 9/11 but he did
not wish to because there was a needed "message" hopefully
to be heard by most of the world.
........Wars
are messages. Anything that is painfully incorrect or harmful is
a message. What had happened to the world's population is that
it had been subjected to temptations and corruption from the beginning
of time but meanwhile given in to "it" and in due course
has created the dysfunctional cycle of the family. Parents can
no longer permit themselves to have innocent children hanging
around them. It's too painful for them to feel this innocence
so close by. Are they getting this as a "message" or
do parents simply need to destroy it.
........What
Bill is not pointing put because he has yet to get there is that
today human beings are actually not real human beings. What they
are now are altered states or even zombies. They are now corrupted
living entities zombified to different degrees of course. Therefore
zombified parents cannot consider their children any different.
Only a very small percentage of human being might be considered
absolute human beings not to forget it is all relative to how
corrupt the mind is and how addicted it is to life. Of course the fathers who abandon their children are so corrupted
by their own mother and to be zombified enough to allow killings
or even a suicide from their children. Creator must have been
brilliant to have created it all and therefore why would he be
that foolish to allow it to all die. What you must now understand
is that life is just an experiment for Creator and you are one
ofthe experiments. It's up to you now. Understand that he permits
painful experiences and some must die as a message for civilization
to change. He could have intervened to prevent 9/11 but he did
not wish to because there is now a "message" hopefully
to be heard by most of the world.
........The " ...fathers who have abandonned their children" per
Bill, have been corrupted by their particular mothers especially
where the child's father never spoke up to its mother and permitted
the corruption to take place. Bill does not mention this and should,
because, if he wishes to help people he needs to tell the whole
truth and nothing but the truth. You see, results alway speak
for themselves. What you see is always what you get not what is
just on the surface as symptomatic..
Of course there are parents who "...raise happy children" per Bill but they too have problems because no one's perfect.
They might even seem to be happy but when nobody knows what true
absolute hppiness is then how can people be happy the absolute
way. Yes, there is an absolute happiness just like there is an
abolute truth and an absolute responsibility.
........"Having
babies" today has now not become a choice. So often this
is a big discussion. We see most people now addicted to life's
influences...to sex, music, drugs, medicines, work, money and
on and on it goes While addicted there is altered state of mind
to contend with and therefore even to have babies is not coming
from a conscious mind. For this reason the "choice"
for those women in regard to abortions is often not a choice but
something compelling. Obssessive behavior which we see today everywhere
is something which intereferes with choice and therefore it is
not a real choice to have an abortion but an influenced choice
from "it".
........Bill
should have told you why we have "government entitlements" in the first place. The liberal governments of the past such as
that of President Lyndon Johnson came from a guilty mindset era.
For many reasons the public, the electorate and the economy dictated
that there are guilty mindsets as the majority. During this era,
they felt sorry for the poor and weak and therefore created the
entitlements hopefuly to get rid of their guilt. In actuality
it is a curse to weaken people and that is exactly what entitlements
do. Weak citizens are more dependent upon governement and therefore
empower government officials more and more even to the point of
creating a totalitarian government and leaders such as Adolph
Hitler and Suddam Hussein. You see, these officials become addicted
to the feelings of power they get from their electorate and then
need to abuse it in an addictive way even to lead themselves to
suicidal tendencies. You will discover that Lyndon Johnson died
a horrible death and so will Suddan Hussein soon or later. As
we all know what goes around comes around sooner or later. Actually
Bill Clinton undermined his country and will expect his own destiny
to have adversities too. Watch out it's coming!
........Bill
writes, "..society recognizes the problem, but can't solve
it...", but this recognition is quite minimal otherwise they
would try to solve it. You see, what they elected as authority
is an extention of their own particular corrupted (AHVC) minds
and also an extention of their own demise because there are suicidal
tendencies in the rational mind so often seen in the liberal mindsets.
They often describe the liberal mindset as intellectual and rational
but it this kind of mind which is more often inadequate when it
comes to common sense, intuitiveness and perception. This kind
of guilty mind is taken over by "it" much more easily
because it needs to feel life rather than come from basic correctness.
This is the corrupted nature of man when he hass given in to "it".
Bill touches the surface and reacts to the symptoms where it is
much deeper than that to locate the cause and any possible solution.
........Bill
uses the word "instinctively" over "intuitively".
Yes, there is a big difference and most people have yet to see
the meaning of the two when it comes to the thought process which
is where corruption rules. Instinct leans upon the physical and
animalike part of the human entity like intuitiveness is something
that originated at birth as a gift. If we always go by instinct,
the animal part of us rules our decisions and if we make an effort
to go by intuitiveness, a wordless thought process, we can rest
assured that there is always a guidance from Creator.
All children are at risk and Bill gets furious. All children are
always at risk as they are born into a world of corruption and
temptations. Parents are addicted and needy which rubs on to the
child no matter what and that is for all children. Where is the
perfect parent? Never to be found. We cannot be sorry for a few
but concerned about all. It begins right here with the 3 R's again,
where people should step back and open upen their minds to a higher
consciousness to realize that they have a problem, recognize the
problem and see that as a spiritual person they must be truly
sorry for their past.in the form of a repentance.
........When
it comes to poverty or wealth Bill did not mention that there
is such a thing as the "spoiled children syndrome".
It is more damaging to the child to spoil the child than have
the child live in poverty. Ther spoiled child can turn in to a
serial killer or a tyrannical government leader. It is more important
to understand the seriousness of this than to just look at a few
examples of what can happen to a child in poverty or entertainers
in the personal sick relationships with one another. There is
always competition between father and son but when there is a
loving relationship the competition can be of value and not destructive.
Loving natures come through Creation and hopefully Bill's book
might mention it here and there.
"No parental guarantees..." says Bill. What does Bill
mean? Is it that one should not expect that one's parents should
make one into the perfect adult, or at least a so-called happy
person. What we all must understand now is that happiness for
most is controlled by conditioning. When the child is growing
up, its conditioning dictates how it feels and this is all it
knows. Then it relates to some comfort zone which may be happiness
and a feeling of familiarity. Now, if this child is not shown
absolute and only adverse uncomfortable feelings, feelings of
guilt and anger this child may only know this as a certain kind
of state of happiness, which is not true and absolute.
........Parents
should be "looking out for the child" but most people
are not aware that they are not in charge but are being controlled
by an inner sinister element. Therefore when a parent they are
not conscious enough to do the correct thing for their child.
They do their best instinctively but unable to act upon their
intuitiveness which during their early years had been suppressed
as a natural means to act upon spiritual reasoning. People act
unnaturally although you will see that today this is described
as natural as an excuse not to be corrected. Yes, it is denial
because it is too painful to realize and recognize how much sinisterism
might be there.
........For
this reason the exorcism emerges, but can be transformed into
a longer process of awakening and repentance as descibed in religiosity.
Bill describes in his book that "...his father had demons...".
Yes, "...his father could not control himself..." In
actuality all fathers are controlled by relatively speaking a
demon (sinisterism). Bill does not understand that mother is always
the controlling factor in the family and the father who resents
his relationship with this woman blows out the steam at the child
instead of taking charge of the wife-mother. This is found to
be in different cultures in different forms. The dominant father
utilized power and anger to control the family or as we see in
America the weak father disappears while the mother is empowered
to become even more overwhelming to the children especially a
son. This is the way homosexuality develops while the son resents
the mother's relentless power and the daughter had no respect
for the father who never intervenes at the right moment. This
is known as identity transference (see book, "World's Greatest
Conspiracy"). Children grow up not knowing who and what they
are.
........Yes,
Bill is right there is little the child can do about it, but this
is true for all of us but to different degrees. How does this
dysfunctional cycle change? Only through some painful event when
that person takes a big fall. Those who are not so chronically
abuse have the best opportunity to break the dysfunctional cycle
but even they are not guaranteed any spiritual change. Simply
being a newborn Christian is no guarantee. It take sincerity and
lack of phoniness which is uncommon in America today. It takes
a "big awakening", lots of pain and suffering and many
years of understanding the facts of life unknown to most of mankind.
No parent does it on purpose. Yes, they do to know what they are
doing whether trying hard to be a good parent, even through guilt,
or simply being controlled by that demon..
........Bill
writes that "...abused children themselves become later abusers
of others...". This is the identity transference phenomenon
of all spiritual entities. One always becomes what one hates.
If one relates to something emotionally, with a feeling of energy
loss of some kind (anger, resentment, jealosy and so on), whatever
that thing is it brings in the identity of that thing. This might
be described as an "imprint" which never leaves that
person's mind. It is important to understand this phenomenon in
order to "look out for your self" and not need to be
concerned about "who is looking out for you". To be
self-reliant and self-motivated and responsible for your own actions
and thoughts must be everyone's purpose or never find happiness.
........Bill
is right when he writes, "...it takes awareness, courage
and discipline..." However, awareness must be discovered
with some specific tools, courage is not found too often because
there must be an inner self-motivating force and discipline in
itself comes two ways. When created from fear and the other discovered
through experiences with the right kind of rewards. Not materialistically
but spiritually. This should be self-descipline.
Actually when it comes to resolving the parental issues written
by Bill, it is a fact that this is the most important issue for
any person who finds adulthood otherwise that person stays emotionally
a child. Without resolving the years of resentment towards the
parent and then using the forgiving technique, the child and later
adult then has a chance to release the spirituality which had
been suppressed. Forgiving and forgetting is esential to bring
that person back to innocence and a relationship with Creator,
and no longer a demonic control. Bill wrote that "he had
hated his father at times", and where there is some hate
it must be resolved with forgiveness in order to move forward
in life. This author does not at this time see that he had done
so,but knowing Bill from his Fox News seems to have progressed
weel emotionally and spiritually, although there are signs of
some deep hostilities. Knowing that his parents wanted Bill to
do well and succeed is an asset in the relationship carried forth
until now and he knew that "there was love in the house".
........Bill
wrote that "he had hated his father at times", and where
there is some hate it must be resolved with forgiveness in order
to move forward in life. This author does not at this time see
that he had entirely done so, but knowing Bill from his Fox News
seems to have progressed well emotionally and spiritually, although
there are signs of some deep hostilities. Knowing that his parents
wanted Bill to do well and succeed is an asset in their relationship
carried forth until now and he knows that "there was love
in the house".
Bill writes, ..."...it makes
me furious when I sees children at risk..."
Now to take a look at Bill's "Ten Commandments of Effective
Parenting":
1. Parents must take time out for the child
2. Punishments must fit the crime
3. Parents must be under control at home
4. Parents must educate their children to compete in the society.
5. Parents should be available at all times for emergency meetings
and
crices.
6. Parents must screen the child's friends, know where the
are at all times, and monitor the schooling.
7. Rules must be enforeced but explained.
8. Parents must be honest at all times. No lying or cheating
and be good role models.
9. Parents must be respectful of their parents, the grandparents.
10. Subversive materials in the home must be removed.
........Bill believes that you might resent
your parents for the rest of your life, which is a colossal waste
of time and energy. Or do nothing because you cannot change
anything. This author believes that you must change yourself.
That is where it all starts from the 3 R's. To do nothing is actually to go backwards because as one fights their
way through the worldly influences of corruption and addictive
states there is a tendency to join "it" just like joining
a cult and from this a pattern of weakness grows and grows while
the basic spirituality deteriorates. One cannot just do nothing,
if there is a concern for one's future happiness. By the way happiness
is different for each and all of us, and is a result of the kind
of conditoning one has had.
........Yes, it all starts with you and your change where there is a
reflection of goodness upon others to help them change. This
author's book explains this in many ways (World's Greatest Conspiracy)
with many methods to use as tools towards spiritual freedom.
Bill misses this in his book Bill spells the word "NOTHING"
in capitals. However, Bill is correct to "...to let it go...".
Letting go of the strings attached and that is the emotional
strings such as resentment and hate must be disconnected by stepping
back from the feeling to let it pass by. Bill did not write
how to do this "letting go".
Bill writes about "...the conflicts with parents..."
and this is true. The conflicts are built upon guilt and resentment
Often children grow up with that "guilt complex" and
then later in their life are entirely motivated through feeling
guilty. Bill should have explained this to you. These inadequate
mindsets will even marry into a relationship to continue this
behavior pattern which that person feels comfortable feeling from
its motivating powers. A balanced spiritual mindset is not motioved
externally or through guilt feelings but is always self-motivated
through doing what is right and correct not seeking any reward
feeling. These balanced people seek a purpose in life and when
discovered move upon it. They always do for others without needing
any personal gratification where the reward is fulfilling by way
of a growing spiritual base.
........Bill writes that "...it is hard to nail down the absolute
truth...". Yes anything that is good and correct is hard
to do. Good things are hard to come by. Taking the easy way
out is always easy as we see people turning to addictive lifestyles,
and there are so many of them. Denial from absolute is the name
of the game for most people. By the way "absolute truth" is from Creator. The meaning of absolute is a derivative of the
relationship one has from one's conscience and thought process
while there is an allegiance with Creator. This all works together
while living a life full of sincerities and spiritualities. This
is something that Bill has yet to discover and bring to the public's
attention. Nobel prizes are given away but not for that at a
more important level which are discoveries to help one raise one's
consciousness. Nothing is more important than this because there
is no true happiness in material things.
........When the child is "...on his own..." writes Bill, it
is one way to help them learn what sinister influences are all
about and to learn to tackle them. However, the basic strength
in any human being to be able to tackle evil is not always present
and in most cases is never there. It can be very painful for
some to meet evil head on and without some knowledge for exactly
what is the meaning of evil one can easily be misled and taken
over by "it". Being on one's own can also be disastrous
for some. It is difficult to know who is looking out for you
and therefore truly one needs to look out for one's self. This
does not mean to be selfish but to see and recognize that evil
exists and that anyone can have a certain amount of "it"
without even being conscious of "it".
........Bill writes that "...harboring resentment hurts the entire
family..." but in actuality it must start with Bill first.
When Bill would drop the resentment (described as a curse by
this author in his books) then he actually is looking out for
himself. Resentment being a curse means that every time Bill
resents his parents he is bringing up his past anger as a continous
pattern and even acting in a dysfunctional way through the dysfunctional
family cycle. Simply dropping the resentment, through forgiveness,
releases that person from the curse and even guilt begins to diminish
each time there is a disconnection. Yes, it is a stepping back
from that resentment feeling to allow it to dissipate is the means
to resolve the past parental anger.
........Bill writes "...the primary duty of a parent is to provide
the child with tools to build a happy and successful life. These
tools are educational, emotional and spiritual. The problem is
that education needs to be the "facts of life" first.
Without this one finds oneself confused and abused. Losing oneself
in rote learning actually suppresses common sense and Creator's
gifts such as perception and intuitiveness. Rote learning is
mindboggling and Bill does not reach into this. It is not just
educational but should be what one learns specifically to lean
towards the spiritual base. Emotions must be explained here otherwise
people become lost and confused again.
........Basically all emotions are destructive therefore it is not just
to have an emotional base of maturity as such but to be able to
recondition one's mindset to establish a thought process which
does not lead to emotional feelings such anger and jealosy.
It easier said than done but it takes years and years to reprogram
one's mind and recondition all of the emotional upsets from the
years of childhood. This can be obtained through group therapy
and understanding the facts of life from this author's books,
a series of books defining the true meaning of absolute and the
tools to use. Actually this author's books can be used as if
one might have an encyclopedia and continuous reference to be
constantly reminded and as if one had that absolute father next
to him or her. This is truly looking out for oneself rather that
just to know who is looking out for you.
........When it comes to "...looking out for you", it truly
means to know and understand evil and how it functions in everyone
on this earth. Know your enemy at all times and that is what
is in people and actually not what they are but what is in them.
Without this phenomenon there can never be forgiveness.
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