...................Forgiving releases the act of resentment
towards others. Now we understand that resentment is a spiritual
curse and that it hangs over us throughout our lives, the phenomenon
of forgiveness is a must for all of us. Forgiving actually does
our Creator's job. Creation created all human entities" in
his image" where most religious people who make this statement
do not truly understand how it functions through man and then
on to woman and child. There is a divine protocol, which means
that there is a moral rule and role that man must play or we observe
the continuation of the dysfunctional cycle within the family.
Through man we have the order of forgiveness and a loving nature
as Creator would have it. Religious people make statement like,
"God loves you". What this does is to make people look
for love all of their lives and never to find it unless those
they reach are loving and giving people. There is no forgiveness
out there and love is hard to find. (see approval seeking)
Once one forgives others the resentment dies. There is another
form of forgiveness which is to forgive oneself. This is the way
Creator permits all human entities to utilize its own power placed
there through Creation to say," I am not a God and do not
know everything." "I must try to always do what is right
and correct and be guided under the eyes of Creator, a supreme
being." "I must eliminate my ego in all areas of my
life because it is this which conspires with evil forces to make
everything go wrong." "I am unable to make the right
choices and decisions when I am under the guise of evil."
"When I recognize my evil acts, I will immediately forgive
myself from the bottom of my heart, and feel truly sorry for what
I had done." "I know that salvation only comes when
I recognize it, realize it and feel truly sorry."
Forgiveness moves us forward and higher into a spiritual realm
of consciousness and closer and closer to Creator. Is it possible
to speak to Creator? Well, you can always try to. Prayers encompass
forgiveness and is a way. Meditation is similar to prayers and
forgiveness can be used in the moments of meditating. Yes, we
must have time to forgive and time to be truly sorry and understand
the other person's problem and inability to be also correct. We
have all been victimized to some extent and hopefully not too
corrupted where we can be able to discover through forgiveness
who and what we really are as human beings (entities).
Forgetting comes next and they must always go together. Once forgiven
we must then forget the trauma. This is not easy to do because
it sets an imprint into our sensitive minds which is hard to get
rid of.
If you were molested in a blue room, then anytime you are in blue
the color will remind you of the pain you suffered and how you
gave into it emotionally. This could be even a blue car, wearing
blue clothing, or blue eyes. No matter what it will remind you
of that painful moment.
There is an important issue which is to never forget that evil
exists. If it had not been for the evil influence which victimized
you, you would never need to forgive and forget. We must forget
to release ourselves from the burden of this resentment, however
a conscious awareness of evil is also very important and is converse
to the phenomenon of forgetting. This is a tricky game the human
mind plays on us. The Creator in us is able to utilize its power
to do miracles and these are seen frequently in every day life.
The corrupted human entity must learn all of this in time if it
is going to serve its purpose, but because humans are not perfect
and will never be there is a conflict between forgetting and reminding
itself that there is evil. Creator does his job as did Jesus Christ,
however no one will ever be that perfect in our lifetime.
Creator does not need to be reminded that evil exists because
its awareness level is supreme. It deals with evil instantly and
the reward is always death. For us human beings to continues in
this difficult world it is a continuous story of forgiving, forgetting
and reminding ourselves of what we are dealing with every day.
Unless this is truly working for you life is denying the truth,
a psychotic condition and a road to pain and suffering. Let's
us never forget that pain and suffering comes before acceptance
of truth.
Forgiving and forgetting is a must and reminding oneself is simply
the conscious recognition of what life is all about, a bag full
of tricks. We can list all of this from guile to deceit, from
hypocrisy to power and on and on it goes.
When we forgive and forget can we be trusting in others? The ability
to trust others should come......
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